Hypercorrection Part 2: Me, Myself, '...and I' 

In the first part of this series, we looked at the corporate anxiety that leads to the misuse of 'myself'. Today, we are tackling an even older, more deeply ingrained habit: the classic '...and I' hypercorrection.

Consider this sentence:

'The manager gave the new project brief to Sarah and I.'

If you read that sentence and thought it sounded perfectly fine, you are experiencing the lingering effects of your primary school education.

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The Childhood Trauma of '...and I'

Almost every British child goes through a phase of saying things like, 'Me and Sarah are going to the park.' And almost every British child is immediately corrected by a well-meaning parent or teacher: 'No, it is Sarah and I.'

We have this drummed into us so relentlessly that we internalise a false, blanket rule: 'Sarah and I' is always polite and correct, while 'Sarah and me' is always childish and wrong.

As adults, we carry this trauma into our professional writing. We become so terrified of using the word 'me' that we force '...and I' into sentences where it categorically does not belong.

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Subject vs Object: The Mechanics

To understand why this happens, we have to look at the mechanics of a sentence.

• 'I' is a subject pronoun. It performs the action (e.g., I wrote the report).

• 'Me' is an object pronoun. It receives the action (e.g., The manager gave the report to me).

When you and Sarah are performing the action together, 'I' is correct. ('Sarah and I wrote the report.')

However, when you and Sarah are receiving the action, 'me' is required. ('The manager gave the report to Sarah and me.') Using 'I' in this context is a hypercorrection. You are trying so hard to sound proper that you end up grammatically incorrect.

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The Foolproof 'Drop Test'

Fortunately, there is a brilliant, foolproof trick for solving this problem instantly. It is called the Drop Test.

If you are ever unsure whether to use 'I' or 'me' when you are paired with someone else, simply drop the other person from the sentence and see how it sounds.

Let's test our original example: Original: 'The manager gave the new project brief to Sarah and I.' Drop Test: 'The manager gave the new project brief to... I.'

Suddenly, the error is glaringly obvious. You would never say 'The manager gave the brief to I'. You would say 'The manager gave the brief to me'.

Therefore, when you add Sarah back into the equation, the grammar remains exactly the same: 'The manager gave the new project brief to Sarah and me.'

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The Mark of a Professional

Precision in language is the silent partner of authority. When you master these subtle rules and eliminate hypercorrection, your writing stops sounding like someone trying to be formal, and starts sounding naturally authoritative.

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How CF Publishing Can Help

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